Frequently asked questions for Guests

What should I wear?

Attire really depends on the time of year and the requests of the couple. Be sure to check with the couple about their particular wedding concerning prefered attire and dress. Most weddings held at the estate are outdoor ceremonies, so please plan accordingly. Sunglasses, sunscreen, bug spray and umbrellas are all good to have on hand as well as dressing in layers. Depending on the weather, we will have the greenhouse and tented reception area made a bit more comfortable using fans or small propane heaters.

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When you arrive at the estate, you will be greeted by parking attendants who will direct you to the guest parking area. Please note: our parking attendants are available 60 minutes prior to the ceremony or pre-ceremony cocktail hour. Please plan to arrive within this window of time. Signs will also direct you to where you should park. 
Golf cart shuttle will be available after you park. A staff member will direct you if you do not want a ride.

What can I expect upon arrival at the estate?

How do I get to the estate?

No matter whether you are driving, flying or taking the train, the estate is easy to locate. We're very close to the PA Turnpike, I-83 and Route 30. If you are planning to use a GPS, use the address: 475 Shady Lane, Manchester PA 17345 to locate the estate, or type in "Historic Shady Lane." Once you reach the estate, our parking attendants will guide you to parking.​

Download printable directions here.
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Are there hotels nearby?

There are several hotel accommodations near the estate. Most couples will have one hotel arrange a room block; if the couple has not arranged a room block at a nearby hotel, here is a list of our preferred hotels:

Hampton Inn -- Mt. Zion Road, York PA (pet friendly)
Hampton Inn - Queen Street, York PA
Heritage Hills Gold Resort
Homewood Suites (great for extended stays)
Home2 Suites (pet friendly)
Marriott Courtyard and Marriott Townplace
Tru by Hilton
Wyndham Garden (pet friendly)
Yorktowne Hotel

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what can we do while visiting york?

Whether you want to fish, hike or shop, there is something for you right in the York area! We're only 15 minutes from Downtown York. Good eateries and local businesses are abundant in the area. Check out some of our state and county parks while you're here, and enjoy great shopping at the malls and outlets that are nearby! If you're looking for events, tours or festivals, be sure to visit Explore York's Page!